How get motivated when you need to do something?

In our life we come across situation that you need to change something but you don't feel any courage. Sometimes even your partner, family and friends may discourage you and not support you at all. In my life also I have come across some situations like that. Here I have mentioned some ways to manage all barriers and go forward.

1. Don't tell it.

If it seems others are not interest in what you do, then don't tell them what you gonna do. It's better to keep quite and let them to feel your success. And also some people are pretend to be much helpful and they try to ruin everything. That is the nature of some people. So we can't change it at all. But if you have good understanding about people you can find to whom may should tell and to whom may not.

2. Your hopes may discourage you as well.

I have told you that some people disturb you. But do you ever think that your mind also try to discourage you too. That bad thing is that you don't now that your mind trying to discourage you. Let's see how your mind work on it. If you know behavior of your mind you can fight with your mind too. 

When we plan to do something, first of all our mind seeks the benefits and gaining. Then plan everything as your task succeeded. So we can't tolerate even small barrier because our imagination went on crystal clear path. But is that the way actually it happens? Everything has ups and downs. In the beginning we come across more failures than successes.

3. Be ready for all good and bad.

Setting our mind for new challenge is really hard because we don't like to change even though highly we need it. When you once over come that situation that doesn't mean everything is okay. Because our mind eagerly  like to go back to previous stage. Because of the that it is better to set your mind accept all good and bad.

You may wonder how accept both. Surely, you are okay with good things, but what about bad things. Truly, the issue does't come with bad things. Actually when something good happens you wish everything would be same. And you compare bad things with good things. Even though we measure it relatively there should be something good in bad thing. I remember a proverb that "Every dark cloud has silver line". That is true in our life too. Finding the silver line is the challenge.